Saturday, May 2, 2009

Unconditional Love

Love... the emotion that rules all others! Love they say is to be unconditional, but how many people can actually have that kind of love. That kind of love is seen everyday only between parents and children...very young children at that.... not with the difficult adolecent or the defiant teen. Parents start unconsciously... to make hidden borders and invisible 'if" rules which seem to define their love for the child. The unsaid, unspoken condition of love leads to disappointments followed by anger and un-retractable words ... and rifts set in the parent -child sibling. Older relationship between partners, end because of this same reason... the hidden condition.
If we can give this love without asking, without rules, without any barrier... an all out love, life would be happier!